This news story makes me want to vomit. It's the worst advice I've ever heard! If you don't feel like someone is marrying material BEFOREHAND, don't push them to be something they wouldn't be on their own! It's fine to want to help someone acheive THEIR goals and dreams, but NOT okay to use them to achieve your own! It's a sick parasitic relationship, not symbiotic.
Put THAT in your Bio journal, Molly.